Help From All My Blogging Friends & Family

I just posted on my "craft blog" about some help with adding these blinkie things or whatever they are called to my blog.  I am involved in making cards for Operation Write Home and have a deep sense of my Faith.  I would love to share some of the great things I see on others sidebars on their blogs, but just cannot figure out how to do that  I am sooo computer challenged .  If someone could help me add these special things to my blog, I would be so happy.  Have a great day.  Enjoy this gorgeous weather.